Thursday, April 16, 2009

Should I tell my bf I have false teeth?

I%26#039;m 16 %26amp; I%26#039;m dating an older guy(7 years older) that I%26#039;ve known casually for almost a year. We started dating about 2 months ago and my mom is ok with this. He%26#039;s really a good guy and I don%26#039;t want to lose him. My problem is I have false teeth(the kind that come out) and he doesn%26#039;t know it, but I%26#039;m afraid he%26#039;ll find out. I think I should tell him in my own way before he finds it out and gets scared off, but how do you tell somebody that? I got them when I got out of 8th grade. They do move around some %26amp; I%26#039;m so afraid he%26#039;ll notice it when we kiss or they%26#039;ll slip like they do sometimes. Before you say anything about taking care of my teeth I should say that really bad teeth run in my family, and I totalled my top front teeth falling off my bike when I was 9. I had an upper partial when I was 10. The partial was never that great so I got the rest pulled out and got a full set when I got out of 8th grade. How do I tell him without scaring him away? Should I even say anything?

Should I tell my bf I have false teeth?
So your a 16 year old with a 23 year old boyfriend and no teeth? Well in that case you should tell him before he finds out in a situation out of your control.
Reply:u probably give a good gum job.
Reply:Yes, you don%26#039;t want them falling out while you%26#039;re making out. He should understand since he%26#039;s 7 yrs. older.
Reply:uummmm??????? wht?????
Reply:Yes, tell him now. It%26#039;ll be harder later and then he may be more upset. If you tell him the truth and he loves you, he%26#039;ll understand and it won%26#039;t bother him. Or he could be a real jerk and dump you, but it%26#039;s best to be honest and up front.
Reply:your best bet is to be honest with him, if he truely cares about you he will understand and he wont run off. If he runs off you know he wasnt meant to be with. If you dont tell him he would think you were lying to him and if you hold this back he might think you are holding other things back. hope that helps. wish you all the best!
Reply:they must be nice looking if he didnt notice. sure..i %26#039;d tell him. you are supposed to look for the good in people, not what medical problems a person has. if he likes you enough it shouldnt bother him at all.
Reply:yes. because if he finds out he will think your an old lady
Reply:you just be straight with him, if he gets scared off or leaves, then you know he wasnt the one for you. that would be really rude if he stoppped seeing you for that reason.
Reply:I am sorry for what you had to go through being so young; it is tough enough being your age ; 2 months is young relationship but what is this guy doing dating you so young?? ; when a relationship is right , you will feel free to tell your story until then it is your story; everyone has something wrong at one time or another ; balding men; health issues etc; just be yourself and don%26#039;t put more pressure on you then needed; you don%26#039;t need to apology or feel bad for a tough break; when life gives you lemons make lemonade ; good luck and just be happy (find someone your age?)
Reply:Forget about the false teeth scenario, he is way to old for you.


Something is not right with a guy that%26#039;s dating a child.
Reply:news flash %26quot;If you live in the United States then your boyfriend is committing a crime by being with an underaged in the first place.%26quot; Heres my advice, If he likes you he%26#039;ll stick with you even if you had just one strand of hair on your hair. Tell him you have sth important to show him. Pull them out and see how much he likes you.
Reply:when you feel that he is getting serious. Why not try asking how he feels about something else like plastic surgery or fake nails and see how he reacts.
Reply:if he truly loves you he will understand.
Reply:My guess is that he probably knows already as he has known you for a year and dating for 2 months, but sooner or later you will have to tell him. Just say you have a little secret that you want to share with him, then explain that you have lost all your teeth and have to wear false ones. If he is the sort of guy I suspect he is he will sympathize with you and not to worry anymore. But if he reacts with horror he is not worth dating. There are guys out there who will accept your situation. Good luck and I hope your present boyfriend is one of them.
Reply:Just be honest.


Tell him %26quot;I%26#039;m jailbait, but I have great (bionic) teeth.%26quot;
Reply:u need to tell him the truth as soon as possible...but don%26#039;t worry about it...if he really likes u then he won%26#039;t care...it%26#039;ll be ok...best of luck...
Reply:I see this as a positive problem that he will have no problems with
Reply:provided he truly loves you the teeth should not be an issue,but people scare for the darndest things.


the dental issue would not bother me but your age would,you really need to get someone a bit closer to your age, if not provide you are happy and your parents agree with him, no problem Iwould reveal them now befor he gets up one night and asks you if those are your mom%26#039;s
Reply:You should tell him, but you have to pick the time and place. How you tell him depends on how he is and where you guys are in your relationship. I%26#039;ve had false teeth since I was 14 myself so I%26#039;ve been in your position a couple of times. I found that waiting a little while before saying anything isn%26#039;t so bad. Waiting a long time is probably not as good. I mean if in a month or so it doesn%26#039;t seem to be going anyplace, then there%26#039;s no use in saying anything when it may become a moot point for other reasons. But if it looks like it could turn into something really good, I wouldn%26#039;t delay saying anything too long. If he really loves you for you, he wouldn%26#039;t care if you were completely toothless without false teeth. He might be a little upset that you didn%26#039;t trust him enough to say something if you wait too long and he finds out on his own though. The next time you 2 have some private time, I%26#039;d think about mentioning it. Like I said if he really thinks a lot of you, it won%26#039;t matter that your teeth come out. The first time my fiance saw me I wasn%26#039;t expecting to meet anybody and I wasn%26#039;t exactly looking my best. I was helping my mom with some gardening in the yard and I was sweaty and dirty and toothless. I never expected to hear from him ever again. Lucky for us his mom and my grandma worked together, so he was able to track me down a couple days later and we%26#039;ve been together ever since. Whatever you decide, I hope it works out the way you want.
Reply:You should tell him but it shouldn%26#039;t make any difference if he%26#039;s a right kind of guy. If he really likes you for you it shouldn%26#039;t make any difference. If he takes off, he wasn%26#039;t the guy for you anyway, so be glad he did. My wife and I both had false teeth when we met and it didn%26#039;t make any difference to us.If anything it made it better.
Reply:Wait till one night and take them out and go to town on him, he won%26#039;t care then cause nothing is better than a gum job!
Reply:You need to tell him the truth or he%26#039;ll find out one way or another, try not to see it like a big problem, start talking about teeth %26amp; tell him that you wanted to tell him long ago, but you didnt know how to, but if he shows a yuck face, he doesnt love you. You know you cant stay with him!
Reply:Tell him the truth. Explain that bad teeth are hereditary in your family and that you had the biking accident. If something that silly and insignificant scares him away he wasn%26#039;t worth having and you can do better.
Reply:I say tell him.
Reply:First of all you should tell him that you have false teeth when you feel like you are comfortable to tell him. Sometimes when you know a person more they will understand. If he blows you off then don%26#039;t feel bad because if someone that doesn%26#039;t accept you then they really don%26#039;t accept you.
Reply:you should tel him and if he leaves then he isnt the one for you.
Reply:He is going to find out sooner or later. So be honest with him
Reply:NOT unless you are going to get him a B-J
Reply:Yes u have..


tell him before it get complicated..


remember u r still in the begining..
Reply:well..if u are like this and probably are since u are 16 dating a older guy..give him head and take out your teeth haha he wont mind then



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